2. i was always that "shy ugly girl" and i hate myself for it. Let me give you an example. That said, it is possible that you are the hawt girl, and not know it. And no, none of what I just said is "rape culture." So, the very first thing you need to do is: Don’t Look Sick, and Don’t Smell Sick. men won't want me unless im attractive. Rendered by PID 20040 on r2-app-02b3e9ac3f5a31c62 at 2021-01-09 01:29:29.603524+00:00 running d8cca48 country code: GB. And here I have to admit that I am undoubtedly judging their books by their covers, but I have yet to find the exception to the rule. I feel confident to walk away from situations and men that don’t serve me, and to give men feedback if they do something I don’t like. I agree with some of the principles but there’s a lot of assumptions and generalisations made - makes it hard to fully support him. Welcome to the life of a wallflower. If you see someone commenting or posting in a way that does not fit the tone of this subreddit, please report them and one of the mods will review the comment or post and respond accordingly. Her weight problems, on the other hand, may also impact her fertility; For this reason, most guys don’t usually go for women who have a larger waist-to-hips ratio. Just participate in what you like and make an effort to talk to the other participants, especially the guys. I mean, firstly because the whole concept of the friendzone is bunk to begin with, but also because I have definitely chosen not to get involved with women I found attractive but for whom there was some other complication I didn't want to deal with. No. It may be hard to hear, but men are noticing that stuff anyway. Server: irc.freenode.net Room: #reddit-mmfb. So, it sounds like you're in a thought spiral. But, you ask an important question, “What am I doing wrong?” You are aware that you are doing something to discourage men from meeting, dating and becoming intimately involved. Most people may not … And that's treating human attraction like it's a single hierarchy. i just cant imagine anyone deciding to talk to me, when there are so many other girls around me who are a thousand times prettier. He tries to get her to like him, before she is attracted to him. While happiness is generally considered attractive on women, they often don't go for guys who appear overly smiley. Men on Reddit have been furiously adding to an Ask Men thread entitled: ‘What is something women think makes them more attractive to men while men think it makes them less attractive?’ Just because no one whistles at you as you cross a street, doesn't mean some other women do not enjoy it. It could be your sense of humor, your intelligence, your consideration for others, anything. Of course, none of the guys are going to find you all that attractive either. The reality was that my shitty, depressed, hateful personality was kind of a turn-off. In today’s modern world, however, the general point of view that men find women with long hair more attractive than those with short hair may still prevail. * Let me clarify - I find them pleasing to the eye, and every so often quite tempting, but I don't find myself actually attracted to them. 0. reply. Wow, you are 27 years old and are convinced that men do not find you attractive. You don't have to go as deep as Scarlett Johansson's voice, but her voice might be more attractive to most men than, say, Kim Kardashian's voice. Me … Quiz: How Attractive Are You? Essentially, make yourself easy to approach. So your looks absolutely aren’t the problem. Men don’t just go around and tell every woman what a great lover she is. I started to look for other qualities IF the attraction is at least a 6. i'd pay a few thousand bucks to be pretty. It's hard to know if you're a guy-magnet or not. it will help me know those i should be making an effort for. 8 Questions | By JasmineB98 | Last updated: Nov 6, 2020 | Total Attempts: 5118 . then even if you are very attractive, most guys won’t bother with you. It's more attractive to look at and feels nicer to touch when it's free of gels or sticky products. Men, on the other hand, have a predisposition to find women attractive. [–]Depressed_Maniac 0 points1 point2 points 2 years ago (0 children). Please report comments you find to be overly rude or offensive. For me it's very much that I've been trained that women don't want to be approached at work, at the gym, waiting for the bus, etc. it's my nose. The unique swagger that comes from walking in heels also causes men to find women more attractive, apparently. 8. Of course, don't try to change yourself to make anyone happy. Una likes them latino and Dos and I like them white. Not gay. I really like the video, it probably doesn’t resonate as well with girls but man, does he hit the nail on the head. ... nobody my age seems to find me attractive/approaches me... What am I doing wrong? Almost puke at the thought of being with a woman. Honey, I am not even ugly, and I had absolutely no luck landing a dude my freshman year of college. The unique swagger that comes from walking in heels also causes men to find women more attractive, apparently. ... i think i am a good-looking person but i still want to know if others find me attractive. A 2013 study by researchers in Finland, South Africa, the … The next year I put in the tiniest amount of effort and ended up with my boyfriend of nearly 9 years now. or Create Personality Quiz. There might be one or two dudes out there who are into the blue arm pit hair and multiple facial piercings. Find your group chat here >> start new discussion reply. If a woman is attracted to you, you can approach her while she's on the toilet and she'll be receptive. This subreddit is also great for those who get gratification out of helping others. I wasted my whole life taking drugs. Indeed, it is not just guys on the internet who rate girls – it is also guys whom you know in real life. Instead, I focus on getting to know someone in a shared activity, and only after I know them would I then approach them. That's the ONLY way you'll know for certain. but that doesnt change the fact that i am ugly and men want women that are pretty.. i don't believe that people my age focus on character. Please don't expect guys to just approach you without you having to put any effort into the social situation. In general the guys that have been attracted to me have been shorter. I am fundamentally unattractive to women, so please don’t tell me that dating is a numbers game, to gain confidence, or to put myself … It's the 21st century. Thankfully, women definitely don’t reject good men in favor of bad men. 2. Barret said in his book that men won’t outright admit that they find the 7:10 body ratio most attractive or that they have a prejudice against big women. Just because a man is not blowing up your phone, doesn't mean you get to label it as "predatory" behavior. Been there. You see someone you like, make a move, if it doesn't work, you're no worse off than you were before. i lost count of how many times a guy said to me "i noticed that youre interested in me but i just see you as a friend". The people who claim you shouldn't approach in [situation] are a tiny but vocal minority. I can't up upvote enough. If you are always walking everywhere in a haste, guys won’t want to approach you. Dear Ugly, Fat Feminists:I'm sorry men don't find you attractive. I thought uni would be a great chance to meet people, but it seems everyone except me is hooking with with … There are women today who look a lot better and younger with the right short haircut. If you come across as “oh woe is me. ... owning a set of clubs actually makes you more attractive to the opposite sex. When I was less mature it was because I was too wrapped up in my own insecurities and was afraid she wasn't really as into me as she acted. You sound like my ex, so I'm gonna give you some cold advice. [–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (0 children), [–]ORPHH 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (0 children). and then they stop talking to me. Don’t worry though, there’s a light at the end of this tunnel. they would AT LEAST try to have sex with me. It is a safe place to be where you don’t have to face other people, hold a conversation, or face rejection. I can say from absolute experience that this is not true. As strange as it sounds, if you are altruistic and you hate lies, then other people find you very attractive. WHY?! They can change, but it takes work. I love Matthew Hussey. We're sure you don't want to tell your partner about all your problems at once. im always alone. Wrong! That kind of desperation is not attractive. This weekend I went clubbing with my Asian (who I shall refer as to Una) friend and half Asian/half latina (Dos) friend. Photo: Getty Images . Yeah, I learned that those people would never be right for me but it leave it's mark on a man regardless. i lost count of how many times a guy said to me "i noticed that youre interested in me but i just see you as a friend". Your physical appearance probably has less of an impact on other people's perception of you, in comparison to your behavior. Start. It used to frustrate me when I was younger, but then I just decided to embrace it. when i used to be in high school, there were always these pretty girls, long blonde hair, blue eyes, perfect face.. and of course every guy was running after them. And she says "sadly I'm working :/" and we go back and forth like that until I realize I'm going to die alone. This is the place to talk about it. Attractive men may actually possess better-quality genes, and thus may be healthier, live longer, and even be more intelligent (Perrilloux et al., 2010). You don't have to have your whole life figured out, but guys don't want to be with someone who is lacking any sort of purpose or direction. For you it’s normal to be told how good having sex with you is. Looking through your post history, you seem to suffer from some sort of depression or other mental health issues. why? After viewing videos of women walking in both heels and flat shoes, the participants in the study rated the heel-wearing women as "significantly more attractive." The truth is that you can hit up a conversation with anyone at almost any time! I'm 27 years old and now sober for the first time in 12 years. It used to frustrate me when I was younger, but then I just decided to embrace it. Until then, happy hunting. What is it that you are doing wrong? I find you attractive and I’d say most guys would think you’re average AT WORST. Writer. The only time you should hold off is when she's obviously busy. So...a grocer approached me last week and I couldn't tell if he was making small talk as part of his job or if it was sincere flirting, but I ended up panicking and "running". [–]drewisbeast567 2 points3 points4 points 2 years ago (2 children), Freshman/sophomore year is honestly just high school 2.0, I think 2nd semester sophomore year is when the greatest change happens, [–]mayflowerpenguin[S] 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (1 child). The filter has a mind of its own. Get active and get involved, its the best way to improve a bad situation. Just because men do not find you attractive doesn't mean you get to change the rules of the attraction game. Attempted suicide once but that didn't work and I'm still paying the hospital for the treatment , can't gather the courage to do it again yet . College is great because you can find friends, and if you don’t like them you can stop talking to them and never see them again. [–]PaxDramaticus 9 points10 points11 points 2 years ago (2 children). I go for the girls who make that first interaction easy. Use of this site constitutes acceptance of our User Agreement and Privacy Policy. if a guy ever came up to me and said hi, i would think he lost a bet and wouldn't take him seriously. Let me give you an example. In general the guys that have been attracted to me have been shorter. There are plenty of reasons to read. Anonymous #1 #10 Report Thread starter 11 years ago #10 Okay, I tried to be more forward last weekend. I’ve got to have bigger biceps first…” Another example is where a guy is working in a job that he hopes will impress women. If you don’t flash a smile in a guy’s way, GWWTAY. i just want someone to be with me. it's the sad truth. I am 5'4 and 120 lbs and my sister tells me all the time that I don't have a boyfriend because I don't go out a lot but I do go out a lot (I am in college and I am out and about everywhere). No matter how selective a woman might be, some have strict physical attributes from their must-haves list, as an OkCupid study found that women find 80 percent of men unattractive. You know what I did? This is so depressing. Do Guys Find Me Attractive? Mar 19, 2018, 09:52 EDT. I am not an attractive guy but I had one bizarre experience while chatting with buddies on Facebook. REDDIT and the ALIEN Logo are registered trademarks of reddit inc. π Rendered by PID 20040 on r2-app-02b3e9ac3f5a31c62 at 2021-01-09 01:29:29.603524+00:00 running d8cca48 country code: GB. Men don't want to go in for a kiss and come out looking like they just joined the circus. I don’t think anyone here is gonna be able to change you’re mind about your self image. So you haven’t had much luck with women and have resigned yourself to believing ‘girls just don’t like me’. Well you might be right, but not for the reasons you think. When I was in high school and college I barely noticed the blonde-haired, blue-eyed girls. Make it easy. I have had a shitty college experience at age 25, Putting Boundaries Up w/ Friends and Then Regretting It. International and National Hotline Numbers, Have to talk to someone right now? So, if you want to know whether guys think you’re a 0 or a 10, take this quiz and we’ll let you know! In the middle of a set at the gym, if she has earbuds or headphones, if she's walking rapidly or running to wherever she's going etc... Just say hi, introduce yourself, make a little smalltalk, be friendly. that was in middle/high school of course. It's something that spans farther than physical beauty. #1 Report Thread starter 5 years ago #1 I'm 19 and never had a boyfriend. The girl that gets approached is the one that can make guys around her feel comfortable going up to them. [–]SirMustache007 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago* (0 children). I feel confident to assert my boundaries in my career, and I don’t need a guy to constantly bolster my self-confidence as I know I’m an attractive woman. Stress. Plenty of men who I personally didn’t find attractive (we all have our ‘types’) spoke to me and I was happy to chat back, because one never knows. Am I going to be single and unwanted for the rest of my life?? I feel confident to walk away from situations and men that don’t serve me, and to give men feedback if they do something I don’t like. Others might even think that you are tired of getting too much attention. I don’t believe this is the case - but my friends seem to think that guys will not approach me because they are scared of rejection. I'm a 5'2" heterosexual woman and have no problem dating short men. Don't go through it alone! (95.3 Kg) to to 123 Lb. I agree with the old Southern saying that “there is a lid for every pot.” ... Vestus virum reddit. It's very likely there are some number of guys in the world who think your nose is the hottest thing since Victoria Secret underwear, but there are probably 100 times that number who don't even realize it's any different and who don't understand why you feel bad about it. [–]LovelyPositivity 4 points5 points6 points 2 years ago (0 children), Not OP but just want to say this is awesome and so are you, buddy! So, it kind of bothers me when I see someone who is a fat piece of shit but they refuse to date anyone who is fat and refuse to lose weight. Then I found out ghosting is usually what happens after the cute girl says yes or we just sort of talk off and on for months/years while I occasionally ask "are you free?" I don't know who these men are...but they could be out there. We also do not allow submissions posted simply to be funny. B. Here are some of the many reasons why good guys get rejected by women: 1. :), [–]Digital_Voodoo 3 points4 points5 points 2 years ago (0 children). Actively try and find solutions to your problems rather than consulting internet strangers for pity points. They could just think you Latinas don't like white guys so they don't try, they may be a bit scared of how assertive and loud you can be (lol), and they aren't as assertive as the typical don juan Spanish guy in going up to random Latinas and hitting on them. I accepted one friend request of an unknown girl and we had a conversation. that was in middle/high school of course. now guys don't talk to me at all. 2. I'd think you're incredibly attractive...trust me. Yeah, in modern times, guys can’t just cold approach without being called a creep, or a even worse like catching a case for harassment or something like that. noone will ever love me or find me attractive. Men don’t want to make you feel uncomfortable. use the following search parameters to narrow your results: Has something terrible happened in your life? Well, most men. Otherwise, we will try to check as often as possible to get it out. Girls usually do not date guys for the … I don't look. Shutterstock. If you are removed for being too harsh in posts and you believe it was done unfairly, please message the mods. and join one of thousands of communities. Don't think you can't be the one who aproches them, that may be all you need to do, I am friends with all the girls (and a few of them are telling me what to write right now), so I've seen this before, one of my friend had not been able to do this and I talked to her and tried to get her out of her shell, and she now has a boyfriend, just try to talk to them, they won't bite (they may bite) By this we mean a specific feature of yours that others may find attractive, such as your long legs or your plump lips. That’s why, if a person who you consider to be a good … It may be helpful to talk to a professional who is good at words and stuff to help you end it. People decided for themselves whether they wanted to add a comment to the Reddit thread. I'm still insecure, still don't regard myself as attractive, and still feel like an outcast in most social situations. Announcements Applying to uni? Spending time with someone who is always a sad sock becomes draining over time, and eventually they pull away so that they can spend time with other, more positive individuals. Men and women don’t find the same things attractive. It's unattractive to listen to someone explain how lost they are if they don't have a plan to get on track. if a man friendzones you, it's because of your looks. Guys think you’re out of their league. I figure I’ll let my career achievements and self-confidence act as natural selection, a way to weed out the men who aren’t right for me. i hate looking in the mirror. And I don't get it a lot because I just assume the person couldn't possibly be hitting on me. I was suffering from horrible anxiety and barely left my room, but I still expected a guy to fall into my lap and constantly wondered if I was completely unfuckable or hideous. Just a new way to view rejection. And when I have my Men Preferred Natural Looking Hair, … … Looking pretty is not enough. i wish i had money for a nose job. We are all into different people, it just takes some of us a while before we can be confident enough to admit it. Some people do find particular extremes, muscles, I suppose, or really big breasts, to be attractive. Watch. Remember, foundation is supposed to be invisible to others and blend in with your skin. Have you ever wondered whether guys find you hot or not? Chill out — you might look hotter. [–]mayflowerpenguin[S] 2 points3 points4 points 2 years ago (3 children). I truly feel like this is correctly encompasses the reason guys won’t approach girls. You need to read the body language and get the hint when she doesn't want to talk, some people have a hard time just telling you straight up when you're not wanted. This weekend I went clubbing with my Asian (who I shall refer as to Una) friend and half Asian/half latina (Dos) friend. i'd to it. noone does. Trust me, people mature a lot after high school. Definitely! You should just try to find your people right now, even if they’re ever just friends, building a support network is important to getting through life, and college. Once you hit the professional world or college, whichever you choose to do, people start to judge you on the merit of your soul rather than how you look physically. or Create Personality Quiz. Here’s my advice. For me, I approach girls semi frequently, I’m not scared of rejection, but if they haven’t given me some sign that they’re ok with me walking over to them you can forget it. Reminder: After posting a submission, check the new section. ... you can learn to turn them … Because that’s a big part of what her unconscious evaluation of your fitness for reproduction is about. I saw that video somad like few years ago and I have still always like really agree with it. Reply; 1.2.1. lol. If your post isn't up within a couple of minutes, copy the link of your submission and message the mods with it to let us know it's in the spam filter. every time i see a couple i want to cry. The Allure of Attractive Men. But I'm sure you knew that- you just didn't want to. Some guys lack communication skills to approach women and think it has to be in a certain setting. I guess I must be intimidating or something because white guys just don't approach me. Christine Schoenwald . No. I’ve been single for a year and only been asked on two dates - both I had to semi initiate...I’m starting to get resentful about the lack of proper attention I receive. because im not worth it. Thankfully, women definitely don’t reject good men in favor of bad men. now guys don't talk to me at all. Well, guys are just as complicated. i feel so lonely. I'm super hesitant to approach women cause I've been reject, mocked, and laughed at for even trying. if i looked like those girls i went to high school with men would do ANYTHING to be with me. Firstly, don’t delude yourself into thinking no one will ever find you attractive just because people in your nearby area don’t. Really. Guys love to pretend we are uncomplicated because it ties into the old stereotypes of what masculinity is supposed to be about, but I promise we are just as complicated as anyone else. Go to first unread Skip to page: lachachacha Badges: 16. Drawing in their eyebrows.’ Look love, thanks to the great over-plucking massacre of 1999, most of … But, I still have to be able to have the ability to want to kiss you and I … Things should then work out for you. The club was having a Peruvian … most people think "lol what's wrong with her nose" and "lol she is so quiet and awkward". i don't have friends and my family hates me. Una likes them latino and Dos and I like them white. To learn more about how to flirt without being sleazy , get more dates, develop confident body language, and overcome your approach anxiety in just 5 days, check out The Art of Charm Bootcamp. I recently made an Instagram post on rejection if you want to check it out I'll link it to you. and then they stop talking to me. In fact, a lot of women have negative experiences when it comes to sexual feedback. First of all, you're making the same mistake that men who get seduced by groups like the redpills, pick-up artists, and incels make. maybe then someone will talk to me. It's hard but it works. When I was more mature it was because I genuinely thought we didn't have much of an emotional bond. So there's no way to stay away from it. If you're inquisitive and want to know if you truly are one then this quiz is sure to tell you! Guys don't seem to find me attractive once they get to know me? This means that to the degree you can, get rid of problems with your teeth, skin, odor, substance issues (believe me – finding out that someone is a smoker the first time you kiss them is bad to experience). It is something like this : Girl: Hi Me: Hey, How are you doin’ ? Do you participate in any of that? You're better off ignoring it entirely and just do your best to be a decent person. For example, a dance class or a recreational sports team. If they had gotten some honest feedback and then made some changes, they might have looked exponentially more attractive to men. That said, I don't know if I could date a guy shorter than me (but it would probably be pretty difficult to find … Like someone else said, you could actually be intimidating to guys. If you’ve noticed some or all of these qualities in yourself don’t worry, you can learn to turn them around and become the guy women find attractive. * Let me clarify - I find them pleasing to the eye, and every so often quite tempting, but I don't find myself actually attracted to them. Are things just not going your way? Do guys stumble over to talk to you? I love them! Hmm, the more you know, right? you get weird looks, noone takes you seriously, girls don't want to be friends with you, instead they bully you and guys don't wanna to talk to you. In fact, most men won’t see how they subconsciously prefer certain female body types. too ugly for a committed relationship. Tldw (it’s only like five mins, not bad at all you should): men don’t want to be creepy. These comments will be removed and you can and will be removed for the subreddit. In fact, a lot of women have negative experiences when it comes to sexual feedback. 800-273-TALK (8255), For those who don't mind a harsher approach, try /r/HowToNotGiveAFuck. Don’t let the sheer fear of rejection stop you from getting a nice girlfriend. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. I was a lot like you in highschool, except guys who knew I liked them used me to get answers on tests and shit like that. What Carolyn Says: Well, I have naturally curly hair so don't fucking touch it. Or, “the clothes make the man.” How you dress signals to … this article is absolutely amazing! New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast, A subreddit to discuss and vent about the dating process and learn from the experiences of others, Press J to jump to the feed. It wasn't easy; I don't have great self-discipline. I am attracted to white and Asian guys but I feel like white guys don't find me attractive. If you want to help but can't think of the words or don't have time, vote them up to draw more attention to it so that others can find and help them. every time i see a pretty woman i get so fucking jealous. Cold distant abusive father. In these places, unwanted advances can be considered harassment. (I was polite, but I was mid panic attack - I was in the store during store rush hour and I don't normally go out during those hours, and so all of those people were overwhelming me and I was having issues with trying to be okay with that, when he was sweet and cute and making nice small talk and I was just too on guard. Here are some of the many reasons why good guys get rejected by women: 1. Stay away from glittery or shimmering eye makeup and NEVER use clumpy mascara. I guess I must be intimidating or something because white guys just don't approach me. no doubt about it. Talk amongst fellow Redditors who would be happy to help. 2 years ago. I felt horrible about it.). ... Those blessed with naturally plump lips … ... A self-confident person who doesn’t have complexes and considers themselves attractive and successful appreciates the same qualities in other people. Plus, if it seems like you don't know what you want to do with your life, it can make you come across as unstable. Please make an appointment to talk with a counselor who can help you get out of negative thought spirals. noone will ever love me or find me attractive (self.MMFB), submitted 2 years ago * by mayflowerpenguin. We don’t know who they are, or whether they are in any way a representative sample of single men… What people don't like is when you're being bothersome. instead theyre like "uhh.. no thanks, i'll pass". [–]drewisbeast567 1 point2 points3 points 2 years ago (4 children). Conversely, a 20-year-old woman will be most attracted to a 23-year-old-man … The age of a woman men find most attractive never makes it above 24. 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